“孩子没有自信,无论父母或别人怎么称赞都不相信,该怎么办?”、“明明做得到的事情,孩子偏说他不会,到底是怎么一回事?”经常会有家长碰到这类问题,可见多数父母都认同,培育孩子成为有自信的人,是非常重要的一件事情。有自信的孩子比较能够把握机会展现自我,愿意全力以赴完成任务,和别人相处时和谐自在,对日常生活更显得兴趣盎然,这样的孩子总给人一种朝气蓬勃的美好感受。相对的,自信低落的孩子碰到挑战时,第一个反应就是逃避、拒绝,认 “Children do not have confidence, no matter how parents or others praise do not believe, what to do? ”, “Clearly done things, the child said he would not, in the end is how the matter?” Often have Parents encounter such problems, shows that most parents agree that nurturing children to become confident people, is a very important thing. Confident children are more able to seize the opportunity to show themselves, are willing to go all out to complete the task, and others get along harmoniously, more interested in daily life, such a child always gives a kind of vibrant good feelings. Relatively, confident children encounter challenges, the first reaction is to evade, reject, recognize