心理问题是时下不少青少年存在的一个问题,关注孩子的心理健康是学校教育及家庭教育中不可忽视的重要课题。如何卸下学生的心理负担,减轻他们的心理压力呢?首先,要给青少年减压。我们少数家长一味地要求孩子按照自己的意愿发展,想把一些自己过去没有实现的愿望通过自己的孩子来实现——成绩要顶尖,上高中要重点,上大学要名牌。可是人与人之间是有差异的,发展是不平衡的,能上重点进名牌大学的毕竟是少数,因此,父母对 Psychological problems are nowadays many young people exist a problem, pay attention to the child’s mental health is an important issue in school education and family education can not be ignored. How to relieve the psychological burden on students and relieve their psychological pressure? First of all, we must reduce the pressure on young people. We minority parents blindly require their children to develop according to their own wishes, want to put some of their own unfulfilled aspirations through their own children to achieve - the top grades, high school should focus on college brand. However, there are differences between people, development is not balanced, can focus on prestigious universities, after all, is a minority, therefore, parents