当我们学会舍弃,学会告别,爱就会通过其他方式返回到我们身边来。整理/舍弃,不仅对大人来说是个挑战,对孩子来说,也需要学习。风靡全球的《断舍离》一书,教会一批人学会整理自己的家和物品,我们的孩子也该从小学学这个。孩子对于过去对于物品的留恋,说明他是一个惜物的人,重感情,懂珍惜,这是值得肯定的。在开始整理/舍弃之前,对孩子这种正面的东西进行肯定,让他知道这是对的,不要去否定他让他有负罪感,或者说会让他在舍弃时更加难过。同时,家长还要引导,因为 When we learn to give up and learn to say goodbye, love returns to us by other means. Finishing / discarding is a challenge not only to adults but also to children. Swept the world, “Brokeback” a book, teach a group of people learn to organize their own homes and items, our children should also learn this from primary school. Children’s past for the nostalgia of goods, that he is a cherished person, heavy feelings, cherish, it is worth to be sure. Before starting to organize / discard, affirm this positive aspect of the child and let him know that it is correct, not to deny that he has a sense of guilt, or to make him more sad when he gives up. At the same time, parents should guide because