一、要统一两个观念1.作为一个家长都希望自己的孩子有一个好的学习成绩,这是人之常情无论在哪一个国家,成绩优秀都是值得赞赏的。所以抓孩子的学习成绩一定不是坏事。我们关心孩子的成绩,希望孩子取得更好的成绩正当而且必要。我们得理直气壮地抓孩子的学习成绩。当然,成绩不能死抓,不能死学,我们得有策略地为孩子提供帮助。同时,生活中,评价孩子也不能只靠学习成绩。2.现在的孩子学习都不轻松,这是普遍现象 First, to unify the two concepts 1. As a parent want their children have a good academic performance, which is a human commonplace no matter in which country, excellent performance is commendable. So grasping the child’s academic record must not be a bad thing. We care about the child’s performance and hope that the child will achieve a better result that is both right and necessary. We can reasonably grasp the child’s academic performance. Of course, the grades can not be grasped, can not die, we have to help children strategically. At the same time, life, evaluation of children can not rely on academic performance alone. It is a common phenomenon that children are not learning easily now