人要对得起自己这一辈子,或许需要努力去做。这是人生过半才悟出的一个道理。“做”,不是做戏,不是做作,而是对世事的敬畏,对秉性的约束,对品格的磨炼,对美好的向往。人要做得地道,很辛苦,也很有味。每念及此,深深为年轻时的随意,散漫,任性而追悔。如果时光倒流,也许可以免掉很多不必要的愚蠢。这里,讲一点体会,意在向朋友求教。其一,做老实人不吃亏。一部分人在利益面前,嗅觉总是特别灵敏。老实人苦读苦学,精明人只需轻巧地作上一弊,就大功告成;老实人按序排队,精明人只需悄悄一 People have to be worthy of their own lives, maybe need to work hard. This is a truth that has been realized half a life. “Doing” is not a play, not an act, but a reverence for the world, restraint of the nature, temperament of the character, and a longing for good. People need to do authentic, very hard, very tasty. Each read this, deeply young at random, casual, self-willed and regret. If time goes by, you may be able to avoid a lot of unnecessary stupidity. Here, tell a little experience, intended to seek advice from friends. First, honest people do not suffer. Some people are always very sensitive to the sense of smell. Honest people study hard to learn hard, smart people only make a disadvantage lightweight, you’re done; orderly line of honest people queued, smart people just quietly one