转眼已经奔四了。常言道四十不惑,最近自己也常常在闲暇之时反问自己:我真的不惑了吗?今天工余竟然兴致倍增,思绪奔涌。记下若干心得与大家共勉。四十以后才明白:好朋友是应该相互欣赏的,而不是相互利用的。好朋友只能在同一阶层中产生,而穷人和富人,百姓和达官,草根和明星,白丁和学者则永远不可能成为真正意义上的朋友。因为不在同一阶层,便永远不会有对方对本阶层的深刻体会与感悟。 Has been running for four. As the saying goes, “Do not be fooled,” he often asked himself frequently in his spare time lately: Am I really puzzled? Today’s surplus actually doubles and my thoughts rush. Write down a few experiences and encourage each other. After forty, I realized that good friends should appreciate each other, not each other. Good friends can only emerge from the same class, and the poor and the rich, the people and the dignitaries, the grassroots and celebrities, the white daughters and the scholars can never become true friends. Because they are not in the same class, they will never have the other party’s profound understanding of this class.