在古时民间习俗中,父母之命媒妁之言是婚嫁事宜中最讲究的。当下,较为普遍的剩男剩女相亲征婚现象,看似与之有些不谋而合。然而,年轻人的观念发生了较大的变化,大多对包办婚姻的做法越发排斥,更有甚者持不婚主义观点。在他们的婚姻观中,两情相悦是从恋爱到婚嫁的必备要素。我们有幸生活在这样的年代,有幸为自己的幸福做主。在封建时代,不同社会阶层出于不同目的,选择与之结为婚姻的 In ancient folk customs, the lifeblood of parents is the most important thing in marriage. At present, the more common phenomenon of remarrying remarried men and women remarry, it seems that some coincide. However, the concept of young people has undergone major changes. Mostly, they are increasingly excluding the practice of arranging marriage, and even more, they hold the view of being unmarried. In their view of marriage, mutual affection is an essential element from love to marriage. We are fortunate enough to live in such an age, fortunate for their own happiness. In feudal times, different social strata chose to marry for different purposes