所谓父性,正如母性一样,是父母对于孩子而言所具有的特性。关于母性,人们曾经说过很多了;关于父性,说的就比较少一点。感觉似乎对孩子来说,母亲的作用更重要一些。其实,正像一些研究所证实的那样,父亲对孩子的影响也是非常大的。父性可能在表现力方面差一些,但它也是一个独特的博大的世界,而且更深刻、凝重、含蓄。最近,我看了一本书,叫《妞妞》,一下子勾起了我对父性问题的沉重思考。 The so-called fatherhood, just as motherhood, is what parents have for their children. As for maternity, people have said a lot before; they say less about their fatherhood. Feeling seems to children, the role of the mother is more important. In fact, just as some studies have confirmed, the impact of dads on children is also very large. Paternity may be inferior in terms of expressiveness, but it is also a distinctly broad world that is more profound, dignified, and subtle. Recently, I read a book called “Niuniu”, all of a sudden aroused my heavy thinking on the paternity problem.