刚过完春节,我的咨询室里就来了一位特殊的客人,她是一名教师,是为班里的一名学生前来咨询的。她对我说了以下一番话——我刚从师范院校毕业,带着对未来美好的憧憬,担任了小学四(5)班的第四任代理班主任。没来这个班之前,就有其他代课老师警告我说:“这个班有个孩子太叛逆了,看你挺温柔的,得厉害点儿,不然很难管教这个孩子,班主任都换了好几个了……”看着老师们那诧异又略带失望 Just after the Spring Festival, a special guest came in my consulting room. She was a teacher who came to consult a class student. She said the following to me: - I just graduated from a teacher training college with a bright vision of the future and served as the fourth deputy director of four (5) primary school classes. Before this class, there are other substitute teachers warned me: “This class has a child too rebellious, and you look very gentle, a little worse, otherwise it is difficult to discipline the child, the class teacher has changed several ... ... ”Looked at the teacher who was surprised and slightly disappointed