1.凡事不要抱绝对肯定的态度;2.不要试图隐瞒证据,因为证据最终会暴露;3.不要害怕思考,因为思考总能让人有所补益;4.有人与你意见相左时,即使这些意见来自你的丈夫或孩子,也应该用争论去说服他们,而不是用权威去征服,因为靠权威取得的胜利是虚幻而自欺欺人的; 1. Do not do anything absolute affirmative attitude; 2. Do not try to conceal the evidence, because the evidence will eventually be exposed; 3. Do not be afraid to think, because thinking can always be rewarding; 4. When someone disagrees with you, even if these Opinions come from your husband or child, and you should persuade them with arguments instead of using authority to conquer because the victory by authority is illusory and deluded;