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线教平在2015年4月15日凤凰网撰文指出:众所周知,东方家庭教育一贯注重亲情和温情,理智往往不足,结果很容易泛滥成灾,酿成很多悲剧;而西方家庭教育偏于理性、注重个体的独立性和自我发展。一段对话就反映了这种差异。在西方国家,如果有小孩问他爸爸:“我们很有钱吗?”爸爸多半会回答他:“我有钱,你没有。”所以西方小孩从小就会自己努力。而在国内,如果小孩问爸爸:“我们很有钱吗?”如果爸爸有钱,一般会回答:“我家有很多钱,等我死了,这些将来都是你的了。”中西方教育孰优孰劣暂且不论,现实是:中国的父母对孩子过分宠爱却是事实,尤其是独生子女占主流的今天。中国父母只要自己有的,恨不得全部给孩子,恨不得把下辈子也给他们准
On April 15, 2015, Fenghuang Wang’s article states: As we all know, oriental family education always pays great attention to affection and warmth, and reason is often inadequate. As a result, it is easy to flood and lead to many tragedies. However, western family education tends to be rational, Focus on individual independence and self-development. This dialogue is reflected in a dialogue. In western countries, if a child asks his father: “We are rich?” Most dads would answer him: “I have money, you do not ” So the western children will work hard at an early age. In China, if a child asks Dad: “If we are rich?” “If Daddy has money, he will usually reply: ” I have a lot of money in my family and I will be dead in the future. " Whether Chinese and Western education is better or not is true regardless of the fact that it is true that parents in China are overly favored by their children, especially the only children today. Chinese parents as long as they have, can not wait to give all the children, wait for their next life to give them