很多时候,不健康心理会让大家时刻都处于不开心当中。其实不管你追求什么,最终取决的不是自己是否追求到了要的东西,而是了解自己是否快乐,自己快乐的根源是什么,自己是否有在追求自己的快乐呢。1.不能宽恕过去——认为自己是受害者全世界的故事版本只有两种:一,我是受害者;二,我是幸运儿。如果给自己贴上受害者的标签,你就会为自己吸引来所有的恶运和痛苦,为自己创造一个悲惨失败的人生。如果给自 In many cases, unhealthy psychology will make everyone always feel unhappy. In fact, no matter what you pursue, the ultimate decision is not whether they are pursuing what they want, but to understand whether they are happy, what is the root of their happiness, whether they are pursuing their own happiness. 1. Can not forgive the past - Think of yourself as a victim There are only two versions of the story around the world: First, I am the victim; Second, I am lucky. If you label yourself as a victim, you will attract all your misfortune and pain for yourself and create a tragic and failed life for yourself. If given