我从事的是职业指导的工作,在跟求职者面对面的过程中,我发现有些人会很习惯性地把自己的一些缺点放大,并把在职场上的失败归结于这些缺点,还表示自己对此无能为力。曾经有一个咨询者,个子非常矮小,中专毕业后一直失业,多次求职未果,在前期的交谈中,他说自己因 I was working as a career mentor. During the face-to-face interview with job seekers, I found that some people would habitually amplify some of their shortcomings and attributed the failure in the workplace to these shortcomings, and also said they were right This can not do anything. Once there was a consultant who was very short, unemployed after graduating from secondary school and repeatedly unsuccessful in his job hunting. In his earlier conversations, he said he had to