随着社会的进步与文明程度的提高,家庭教育中那种粗暴“体罚”孩子的现象虽然大大减少,但还是经常会听到一些家长对“不争气”子女的训斥与嘲讽:“没出息”、“天生笨”等等,这就是所谓的“心罚”。不管父母的出发点是多么的善良,理由多么的实在,但其教育后果,必然会适得其反。父母是孩子人生道路上第一任老师,是孩子在这个世界上最 With the progress of society and the improvement of the level of civilization, the phenomenon of rude “corporal punishment” in family education has been greatly reduced. However, some parents often hear scolding and ridicule from their “unscrupulous” children: “No interest ”, “born stupid ” and so on, this is the so-called “heart punishment ”. No matter how good the parents’ starting point is, and what the reasons are, the consequences of their education will inevitably be counterproductive. Parents are children’s first teacher on the road to life, is the child in the world