大人跟孩子讲话,一定要谨慎,切不可信口开河。因为小孩,特别是处在小学年龄段的儿童,思维尚处于不成熟阶段,对很多事情似懂非懂,大人讲话稍不注意,就可能引起孩子的误解。有时,在大人看来只是一句玩笑,或不经意的话语,孩子却会当真,在他幼小的心灵上布下阴影,甚至影响到他健康成长。 When adults talk to their children, they must be cautious and can not be trusted. Because children, especially in primary school age children, thinking is still immature stage, a lot of things that do not understand, adults pay less attention, it may cause children’s misunderstanding. Sometimes, in the eyes of adults, it is only a joke, or casual words, but the child will take it seriously, laying a shadow on his young mind and even affecting his healthy growth.