我们应当承认这样一个事实,就是社会不能完全满足人的欲望,世界往往并不是我们想要的模样。如果一个人单纯从理想出发,则可能心生失望和抱怨,得意的人是这样,失意的人更是这样;在职的人是这样,退休的人更是这样。有的人一旦退休,常会抱怨人走茶凉、门庭冷落,或是抱怨自己被社会边缘化…… We should recognize the fact that society can not fully satisfy human desires, and the world is often not what we want. If one is based purely on ideals, one may be disappointed and complacent, one who is proud, and one more who is frustrated; the one who is employed is, and the one who retires, more so. Some people once retired, often complain about walking cool, deserted, or complain that they are marginalized by society ... ...