案例:一日,一位40岁的英俊男士走进心理咨询室,他告诉我他很苦恼,虽然他已成家立业,可是他内心总有一种冲动想去打人。询问后得知他在高中时期,曾经被一名同学打伤过,学校、家长对这件事的处理让他感到很伤心,那时他在家休学养伤的一个学期里,感到既无助又气愤。直到现在他还感觉自己内心有一股很强的力量不断地要冲出去教训别人,而自己将要付出的代价让他不断挣扎着。他想摆脱这种不良情绪前来求助。 Case: On the 1st, a 40-year-old handsome man went to the counseling room and told me that he was distressed. Although he had already got married, he always had an urge to beat people. Upon inquiry, he learned that he had been wounded by a classmate in high school and was saddened by the treatment of the school and parents. During that semester, he felt helpless and angry . Until now, he still felt that there was a strong force in his heart constantly rushing out to teach others what he would have to pay for him to keep struggling. He wants to get out of this bad mood for help.