我们做父母的,差不多经常会碰上子女们出毛病,给我们添麻烦:跟人家孩子斗嘴打架呀,撞翻了凳子呀,嚷着要买这买那呀,等等。_面对这些,父母们有的简单粗暴,恨不能快与子女“刺刀见红”;有的则一味迁就,总爱同子女订“城下之盟”。后一类在有“独生子女症”的父母中简直“蔚然成风”。这两种方式都会贻害子女,其中的道理,在今天已经是无需多言。 When we are parents, we often run into trouble with our children and give us extra trouble: we fight fatigued with children, knocked over the stool, clamored to buy it, and so on. In the face of these, some parents are simple and crude, can not wait fast and children “Bayonet see the red ”; while others blindly accommodate, always love their children . The latter category is in the “one child” in the parents simply “become common practice”. Both of these methods will harming their children. The reason for this is unnecessary today.