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网恋只是一种形式。一场健康成功的网恋最终必然要从虚幻走向真实,柏拉图式的精神恋爱绝非长久之计。网恋实际是一场真实恋爱的前奏。“三大纪律”之一:见面前一定要互换照片无数“见光死”的前人证明了一个真理,互相有爱慕感觉的网友见面之前一定要互相交换照片。这并不是说我们那么在乎对方的相貌,而是因为人对于容貌有一个适应和接受的过程,就是再其貌不扬的人,看得久了,有心理承受能力了,也能接受。否则,见面时出现过大的心理落差,以致连普通朋友都做不成。“三大纪律”之二:网聊100小时以上再见面如果想要发展一场认真的恋爱,相互间的深刻
Online dating is just a form. A healthy and successful online dating will inevitably have to go from illusion to reality, and Platonic spiritual love is by no means a long-term solution. Online dating is actually a prelude to a true love. One of the Three Disciplines: Be Sure to Interchage Photos Before Meeting Numerous “Seeing the Light” predecessors proved a truth, and friends who love each other must exchange photos with each other before meeting. This is not to say that we care so much about each other’s appearance, but because people have a process of adaptation and acceptance of the appearance, that is, those who look good and see, have seen for a long time, mentally and physically, and can accept it. Otherwise, there will be a big psychological gap when meeting people, so even ordinary friends can not do anything. “Three major disciplines,” the second: chat more than 100 hours to meet again If you want to develop a serious love, mutual profound