几年以前,有人问我,如果开办家长学校,向家长宣传正确的教子方法,行不行。我说,好啊,心理学中有毕生发展理论,说人的一生都是在发展中度过的;教育学中也讲究终身教育,鼓励人们活到老学到老。做了父母,当然棘手的事情会有很多,有地方学习该多好。但再往下讨论,说及到底家长需要些什么时,我们发现,家庭形形色色,问题千差万别。即使是同一个问题,具体的情况就可能很不相同。如:“我的孩子为什么不听 A few years ago, someone asked me if I could start a parent school and publicize the correct method of teaching God to my parents. I said, well, there is a theory of lifelong development in psychology, which means that people’s life is spent on development. Education also stresses lifelong education and encourages people to live and study until they are old. Parents, of course, there are many difficult things, there are places to learn how good. However, when discussing further and talking about what parents need in the end, we find that all kinds of families have different problems. Even if the same problem, the specific situation may be very different. Such as: ”Why do not my children listen