作为一名农村中学的班主任,经常为学生的违纪问题而困惑。那天,我找来一名经常逃课、连自己也认为没有办法的学生,对他说:“老师送你一句话,你记好了,‘有时候,为了生活甚至生存,我们不得不去做自己不喜欢的事’。你听明白我的意思了吗?”当时,这位同学说听明白了。第二天早上, As a class teacher in a rural middle school, she is often confused by the problem of student discipline. On that day, I found a student who often skipped classes and even thought that he had no way. He said to him, "The teacher gave you a word, you remembered, ’Sometimes, in order to live or even survive, we have to do it ourselves. I didn’t like it.’Do you understand what I mean?’ At that time, the classmate said he understood. the next morning,