做个贤妻良母,在很长的历史时期这是社会和男人对女性的要求和期待。但是今天,这一传统的女性角色开始受到了各国女性主义者和许多知识女性的质疑和批判。这里发表三位中日女学者对这一问题的对话和讨论,从中我们可以看到,女性真正想要达到独立健全,还将有一个漫长和坎坷的过程。 Be a good wife and mother, in a very long historical period this is the social and men’s requirements and expectations of women. Today, however, this traditional female role has begun to be challenged and criticized by feminists and many intellectuals in various countries. Here three Chinese and Japanese women scholars are invited to discuss and discuss this issue. From this we can see that there is still a long and bumpy process for women to really want to achieve independence and soundness.