有这样一个案例:格格是个聪明伶俐、活泼外向的女孩子,长相不错,多才多艺,能言善辩,小时候就是家里的中心。但是,随着年龄的增长,格格越来越没有什么好朋友,班里同学大多不喜欢她,不愿意和她交往,敬而远之。为此她自己很苦恼。同学们反映,由于格格热情开朗,喜好主动交往,给大家的第一印象都不错。但是不要多长时间就会发现她“原形毕露”了。首先她说话总是以自己为中心,不太关注别人的感受。一个话题出现,她总是喋喋不休地自己说个够,旁若无人。最关键还在于她不太诚实,说话太不靠 There is such a case: Princess is a clever, lively extroverted girl, looks good, versatile, eloquent, childhood is the center of the family. However, with the growth of age, the princess has no friends, most of the classmates do not like her, do not want to deal with her, at arm’s length. To this end she is very distressed. Students reflect, because Gege enthusiasm and cheerful, like to take the initiative to deal with, to everyone’s first impression is good. But not how long it will be found her First, she always speaks for himself and does not pay much attention to the feelings of others. A topic appears, she always chatter endless enough to say enough, no one else. The key is she is not too honest, too reluctant to speak