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※自尊大概是一条“中庸”之道:过之乃自大,不及则是自卑。动辄把“尊严”挂在嘴边、渴望别人“认证”尊严者,恰恰不是自信,乃是自卑。一个人的尊严,不是他人施舍的,当然也不需要别人“认证”。自尊源于自信,学习别人的长处,不觉得是屈辱,别人有所指谬,也不觉得是冒犯。
※ self-esteem is probably a “moderate” way: over arrogance, less than it is inferiority. Often “dignity ” hanging around, longing others “certification ” dignity, it is not self-confidence, but inferiority. A person’s dignity, not others charity, of course, do not need someone “certification ”. Self-esteem stems from self-confidence, learn the strengths of others, do not think it is humiliation, others are not correct, do not think it is offensive.