所有温柔贤惠没要求的女人,永远都是当备胎的命。在一段感情里,要求越多的那个人,地位就越高。许多姑娘明明很好,很温柔,对人总是宽容,可为什么偏偏就一次次地受伤,仿佛全世界的坏男人都在跟她们作对。原因其实很简单,就因为这些姑娘只会照料好别人,却不懂怎么提出要求,不懂怎么争取自己的应有利益,更不懂怎么打理好自己。在一个家庭里,女人是最辛苦的。她们需要工作,需要自食其力,需要照顾家人,需要伺候父母公婆。她们还要怀孕,还要忍受痛苦生娃,还要哺乳,还要管小孩。 All gentle and virtuous women who are not required, will always be the life of a spare tire. In a relationship, the more you ask, the higher your status. Many of the girls are clearly good, very gentle, always tolerant of people, but why they are hurt again and again, as if bad men around the world are against them. The reason is very simple, because these girls will only take care of others, but do not understand how to make demands, do not understand how to win their due benefits, but do not know how to take care of themselves. Women are the hardest in a family. They need work, they need to be self-reliant, need to take care of their families and need to wait for their parents-in-law. They also have to be pregnant, but also to bear painful baby, but also breast-feeding, but also children.