人生对待得与失,往往纠结十分,得之则欣喜,失之则沮丧。塞翁失马,焉知非福,得与失常常互为因果,相互转化,世界才能维持平衡,只有正视得失之人,月亮即使有缺,却依然皎洁,人生即使遭遇挫折,却依然坚强,笑对人生。当得意时,须寻一条退路,然后不死于安乐,当失意时,须寻一条出路,然后可生于忧患,这是星云大师的观点。世间的事都存在于悲欢离合之中,得之要做到宠辱不惊,时时警醒自己是否有妄形之为,时刻保持谦虚之态。和其光,同其尘,失之则内心要愈加强大,不卑不 Gains and losses in life are often entangled, but delight, frustration. Only by looking at the gains and losses of the people, the moon is still bright and full, even though the life experiences setbacks, it is still strong and laughed at life . When you are proud, you have to look for a retreat, and then you will not die in peace. When you are frustrated, you have to find a way out and you can then be born with distress. This is the view of Master Nebula. The things in the world exist in the joys and sorrows, and we should do our share of reverence and remind ourselves from time to time to remonstrate ourselves whether we should act in a humble way and always keep a modest attitude. And its light, with its dust, the loss of the heart to be more powerful, not humble no no