在各类人际关系中，与融洽和谐相对，有一种“冷战”现象，即交际双方处于一种排斥、对抗、争斗的僵持状态，其特点是具有特续性和顽固性。这是人际交往的怪圈，也是一种常见的现象。走出人际“冷战”的怪圈，是建立正常的人际关系，促进人际交往的重要的工作。人际“冷战... In all kinds of interpersonal relations, as opposed to harmonious harmony, there is a “cold war” phenomenon in which both parties of communication are in a stalemate of exclusion, confrontation and struggle, which is characterized by special continuity and intransigence. This is a vicious circle of interpersonal communication, but also a common phenomenon. Getting out of the vicious circle of people in the “Cold War” is an important task in establishing normal interpersonal relations and promoting interpersonal relations. Interpersonal "Cold War ...