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孩子的成长必定会伴随着挫折,像在学校或幼儿园受到老师批评、参加歌唱比赛没得到第一……由于长辈的宠爱、溺爱,很多孩子都存在着依赖、敏感和不愿承受困难、不能接受批评的问题。今天,情商训练师将通过两个案例,指导家长如何帮助孩子提高挫折抵抗力……知难而退型3岁的小彤无论做什么事情,只要稍微遇到点困难就退缩起来。在幼儿园,画画画不好,回家也生气;做游戏做不好,回家也哭,后来干脆不想去幼儿园了。分析:这样的孩子天生有点儿懦弱。此时,家长一定千万不能再说孩子:“怎么这么笨?其他的小朋友不是都玩得好好的吗?”
The growth of children must be accompanied by setbacks, such as criticism by teachers in schools or kindergartens, singing competitions did not get the first ... ... because of elder love, spoiled, many children are dependent, sensitive and unwilling to bear difficulties, unacceptable Criticism. Today, the EQ trainer will guide parents in how to help their children improve their setback resistance through two cases ... Knowing and Retirement 3-year-old Xiaotong flinches whenever there is a little difficulty. In kindergarten, drawing is not good, home is also angry; to do the game well, go home cry, and later simply do not want to go to kindergarten. Analysis: Such a child born a little cowardly. At this point, parents must not say the child: “how so stupid? Other children do not all play well? ”