一个忧心忡忡的母亲带着儿子向村里一位德高望重的长者求助:“先生,请您跟我儿子说几句,劝他不要吃太多的糖果。”长者沉默片刻,然后说:“现在不行,等过两星期你再带孩子过来。”两周后,这位母亲带儿子再次登门拜访。长者看着孩子的眼睛,诚恳地说:“好孩子,为了你的健康,我希望你以后要改掉贪吃甜食的坏毛病。” A worried mother with her son to the village a respected elders for help: “Sir, please tell my son a few words, advised him not to eat too much candy. ” The elderly silent moment, and then said: “Not now, wait two weeks and then bring your child over.” “Two weeks later, the mother brought her son to visit again. The elders looked at their children’s eyes and said sincerely: ”Good boy, for your own health, I hope you will get rid of the bad things you eat sweets later.“ ”