三年前,儿子表现出明显的叛逆期对抗,动辄与我对着干,甚至争吵起来,我很是烦恼。有一次,我忍不住斥责他:“现在的你整个一刺儿球,一碰就扎手。”儿子昂起头:“我要是刺儿球,那剌儿有逆着长的,也有顺着长的,如果您顺着方向摸就不会扎手。”我怔住了,想想那刺儿球,不就像儿子所说的那样吗?轻轻地顺着方向摸就不会扎手,而急躁地逆着方向摸自然被扎得又深又痛了。 Three years ago, my son showed obvious rebellious confrontation. At times, he was even confronted with and even quarreled. I was very worried. Once, I could not help but rebuke him: “Now you whole thorn ball, hit it with a touch. ” Son raised his head: “I want to prick ball, that assassin children against the long, Along the long, if you follow the direction of the touch will not be a hand. ”I zhengzhu, think of that stabbed ball, not as his son said? Gently touch the direction will not Hand, and impatiently against the direction of touch naturally get deep and painful.