我的同事梁君的丈夫身体不好。有一天,我从她那漫不经心的谈话中得知,她丈夫当天是自己拎着包去住院的,而她则一如既往地上班、聊天,看不出她对丈夫住院治疗有什么忧虑和牵挂。我感到十分惊诧。我问:“怎么,丈夫住院你也不去送送?”她平静地说:“我管不了那么 My colleague Liang Jun’s husband is in poor health. One day I learned from her careless conversation that her husband was carrying her own package for hospitalization the same day and that she continued to work and chat as usual and could not see how worried and worried she was about her husband being hospitalized. I was very surprised. I asked, “Why, you’re not going to be sent to your husband?” She said calmly. "I can not manage that