“有没有人管啊,有人被推河里了,出人命了。”在北京一家临终关怀医院,一个快90岁的奶奶在院子里喊着。我走过去,问了几句,明白了这其实是一位老年痴呆患者,她或者做了一个梦,或者想起了过去的什么事情,把它当作真事了。做了两年临终关怀志愿者,我清楚地知道事情是假的,但她的急切是真的。于是就有了我们以下的对话:“奶奶,那个坏蛋已经被抓起来了。” “There is no one tube ah, someone pushed into the river, out of life.” In a hospice hospital in Beijing, a 90-year-old grandmother shouted in the yard. I walked over, asked a few words, and understood that it was actually an Alzheimer’s patient. She either had a dream or thought of what happened in the past and took it as a matter of fact. After two years of hospice volunteer, I knew clearly that things were false, but she was anxious to be true. So we got the following conversations: “Grandma, the bad guy has been caught.”