据史书记载,蒙古人在男子求婚时须费很多口舌说服,才能征得女方的同意。婚后新郎须住女方家里,结婚宴席上新郎要吃羊颈喉肉,以示坚久。婚后如生男孩就在帐篷外挂上弓箭,如生女孩就挂红布。产妇生子后,七日之内不准动、二十一天内外人不得进入帐篷,以保持产妇安静。 According to historical records, the Mongols have to spend much time and persuasion on men’s proposals to obtain the consent of the woman. After marriage, the bridegroom must live in the woman’s house, and the bridegroom at the wedding reception should eat the sheep’s neck and throat meat to show the long-term. After marriage, if a baby boy hangs a bow and arrow outside the tent, as a girl hangs a red cloth. Maternal child, within seven days of no move, outsiders are not allowed to enter the tent within 21 days to keep the mother quiet.