一次聚会上,有位年轻朋友把心里的苦恼说出来:“我需要有人给我指点。我们部门里的同事老把没人要做的事丢给我做,还有一些人对我处事很不满,再加上老板最近交代我一件新工作,但是我不知道自己适不适合,我实在不晓得该去问谁,又该让哪些人满意?”“你应该问你自己!”我对他说。他一脸疑惑:“什么意思?”“你不是说你不晓得该让哪些人满意,那谁又该让你满意?”“我——我不知道啊,我没想过这个问题。” At a party, a young friend said his heart’s distress: “I need someone to give pointers to me, my colleagues in the department always leave no one to do, and others do a lot to me Dissatisfaction, coupled with the boss recently told me a new job, but I do not know that they are not suitable, I really do not know who to ask, and which people should be satisfied? ”“ You should ask yourself! ”I told him. He wondered: “What does that mean?” “You’re not saying you do not know who to be satisfied with, and who should make you happy?” “I-I do not know, I did not think about it this problem.”