曾几何时,同学兰娟的儿子海强在性格和行为上“简直就是女生”——做事扭扭捏捏,时常露出害羞状,同学们都讥笑他为“公公”。然而,最近同学聚会时,我所看到的海强已然蜕变为一个阳刚气十足的男子汉,和男伙伴玩得很开心。我大为惊叹,赶忙追问经验。兰娟总结出如下三条:首先,避免正面批评教育。当兰娟意识到孩子问题的严重性后,思忖再三,决定告诉孩子,哪些习惯不好,需要改正;真正的男子汉应该是什么样的。可孩子却一脸茫然;不停追问为什么。于是,她和丈夫决定通过对别的孩子进行评价来引导儿 Once upon a time, the classmate Haijuan’s son Hai Qiang in character and behavior “almost is a girl ” - doing things twisting, often showing shy, students are ridiculed him as “father.” However, the recent gathering of classmates, I have seen Hai Qiang already transformed into a masculine man, and the male partner to have a good time. I’m amazed, hurry to ask experience. Lan Juan summed up the following three: First, to avoid positive criticism of education. When Lan Juan realizes the seriousness of the child’s problem, he thinks repeatedly, decides to tell his children which habits are not good and needs to be corrected, and what a real man should be like. But children look blankly; keep asking why. As a result, she and her husband decided to guide children by evaluating other children