一位母亲的来信在工作过程中,发现很多家庭都有一个共同的困惑,就是夫妻之间或者父母与老人之间教育观念不统一。有时是老人和我诉苦,有时是父母其中一方向我倾诉,有时,甚至夫妻俩当着我的面就争得面红耳赤……邮箱里有一封名叫莫言的母亲的来信极具代表性,整理如下:我和他是师范大学同学,也是班里唯一修成正果的一对。从小到大,家里人都很尊重我的选择,虽然起初妈妈有些不满意,觉得他家在农村,可能很多习惯、观念上会有些不同,生活时间久了,会有矛盾发生。但她也只是把道理讲给我听,那时候我都不以 During the work of a mother’s letter, she found that many families have a common confusion that the concept of education between husband and wife or between parents and the elderly is not uniform. Sometimes the elderly and I complained, sometimes one of the parents told me to talk, and sometimes, even the couple in front of me to fight for redness ... ... Mail there is a letter from the mother named Mo Yan representative, organized as follows : I and he are normal university students, but also the only pair of positive achievements in the class. From small to large, the family members respect my choice. Although her mother was somewhat dissatisfied at first, I think his family may be in rural areas and may have many habits and concepts that may be somewhat different. There will be contradictions in life after a long time. But she just told me the truth, then I did not take it