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女儿8岁,胆小,很怕黑,也很怕鬼。虽然她知道世上没有鬼,但在很黑的地方还是很怕,她也不知道是为什么。该如何帮助她走出胆小怕鬼的阴影?蔡建新:其实世上本没有鬼,这是不争的事实。但是8岁的小女孩怎么怕鬼呢?她也许在别人的交谈之中,听到过人死后会变成鬼,而且无比恐怖,害怕鬼就是很自然的事了。成年人也怕黑。人是群居的,在黑夜里,看不到他人,不知道隐藏着怎样的危险,害怕也是正常现象。害怕本来是一种自我保护机制,对孩子的恐惧现象家长一定给予足够的重视,
8-year-old daughter, timid, afraid of the black, but also afraid of ghosts. Although she knew there was no ghost in the world, she was still scared of being black and she did not know why. How to help her out of the shadow of timid? Cai Jianxin: In fact, there is no ghost in the world, this is an indisputable fact. But how can an 8-year-old girl be afraid of ghosts? Perhaps she may become a ghost in the conversations with others and become extremely ghostly, and fearful of ghosts is quite natural. Adults are also afraid of darkness. People are social, in the dark, do not see others, do not know what kind of hidden danger, fear is normal. Fear would have been a self-protection mechanism, the phenomenon of fear of children parents must give enough attention,