修养不是外在的,而是内在焕发出的一种气质或是给人的一种感觉。有修养的人会让人感觉很舒服,很愿意与之接触。 修养是无形的,它不像人们身上穿的衣,脚上穿的鞋看得见,摸得着,但它又如影随行。从人们的言谈举止,待人接物的方式,甚至是一个简单的表情,无不反映着人的修养。 修养又并非是包装出来的,华丽的衣着,金银的佩饰丝毫无法增添人的修养,有时适得其反。修养其实也就只是一些小小的举动。如当别人不小心踩了你的脚的时候,你不用大惊小怪,狠很地瞪人,而只是报之一笑;如当你被别人误解时,你不需要大声地申辩,而 Cultivation is not external, but a kind of inherent glow or gives a feeling. People who have a sense of accomplishment will feel very comfortable, very willing to contact with them. Cultivation is invisible, it is not like people’s clothes, feet shoes visible, touching, but it is like a shadow accompanying. From the people’s speech and deportment, the way to treat people, even a simple expression, all reflect the man’s self-cultivation. Training is not packaged, gorgeous clothing, gold and silver accessories did not increase people’s training, and sometimes counterproductive. In fact, it is just a small move. When someone accidentally steps on your foot, you do not have to be fussy, stingy, and just laugh; when you are misunderstood, you do not need to argue loudly,