现在,落座心理咨询室的是个高一女孩。从她的脸上我鲜明地看出了两个字———郁闷。果然,我们的对话就从她的郁闷开始了。女孩说:“我最近很郁闷,非常郁闷,不知道为什么?”来访者常常这样开始谈话,让人感到一头雾水。只有把沟通逐步引向深入,才能发现问题所在。于是,我引导说:“具体说说是怎样的郁闷?” Now, a counseling room is a high school girl. From her face I clearly see the word --- depressed. Sure enough, our conversation started from her depression. Girl said: “I am very depressed recently, very depressed, do not know why?” Visitors often start talking like this, people feel confused. Only by gradually deepening our communication can we find the problem. So, I guide said: “What is the specific depressing? ”