男女之间相爱很容易,相处却难,这是一个值得我们深思的现象。仔细分析其原因,我们可以发现这是因为向一个所爱的人表达爱意,虽然让人觉得害羞,忐忑不安,但毕竟这是“示好”的行为,所以给人的压力并不大。但是男女相处日久必然也会有一些冲突、一些误会、一些无奈,这些事令人不舒服,甚至于会使双方都痛苦万分。有些夫妻能平安渡过这种危险,有些人却马失前蹄,冲突日剧,甚至反目成仇,其中最主要的关键点是在于两个人“情绪反应”的方法或模式出了问题。 Love between men and women is easy, get along is difficult, this is a phenomenon worth our pondering. Carefully analyze the reasons, we can find that because of the love to a loved one, although people feel shy and uneasy, but after all, this is “show good ” behavior, so the pressure is not great . However, there must be some conflicts between men and women living together for a long time. Some misunderstandings and some helplessness are uncomfortable for these people and may even make both sides suffer so much. Some couples can survive this danger peacefully while others lose their way, conflict Japanese drama and even turn against their enemies. The most important point is that there are problems with the method or mode of two people’s “emotional reaction.”