享誉盛名的心理治疗师阿德勒在他的《超越自卑》中写过“回忆绝不会和生活的模式背道而驰”。在那段时期我想到所有的事,爸爸妈妈老师同学,好像从来没有人可以了解我。我从幼儿园回忆到初中,几乎从来没有一次是没有眼泪的回忆。但是生命从来不会只有一面,不管你有没有意识到。在我糟糕的生活中,还是有许许多多关心我的人,即使我从来都是沉浸在自我分析和自我怜悯中, Renowned psychotherapist Adler wrote in his book “Beyond inferiority” that “memories never go against the pattern of life.” During that time I thought of all things, my mom and dad classmates, as if no one ever knew me. I recall from kindergarten to junior high school, almost never once without tears of memories. But life has never been the same, whether you realize it or not. There are still many people who care about me in my bad life, even though I have always been immersed in self-analysis and self-compassion,