同样一句批评的话,说得好,被批评者能愉快接受,说得不好,被批评者就不一定能听得进。值得一提的是,在时下一些单位开展的相互批评中,有些同志不是满腔热情,而是拉开架势,一副拒人于千里之外的冷面孔;不是促膝谈心,而是盛气凌人,我讲你听;不是和风细雨,言恳意切,而是措词偏激。让对方难以接受。不但没有达到帮助同志的目的,而且伤了和气,大家弄得很僵。批评就是通过摆事实,讲道理,开展积极健康的思想斗争,帮助同志解决党性党风方面存在的问题。由于相当一些地方和部门很长一段时间批评与自我批评没有很好地开展起来,一些同志听表扬的话听惯 The same one criticism, put it well, the critics can be happy to accept, put it well, the critics are not necessarily able to hear. It is worth mentioning that in the mutual criticism conducted by some units nowadays, some comrades are neither enthusiastic nor enthusiastic about this situation. They are not only appearing cold-hearted but not domineering but are domineering. I say You listen; it is not temperate, kind words, but rather radical language. Let the other side difficult to accept. Not only failed to achieve the purpose of helping the comrades, but also hurt the atmosphere, everyone made very stiff. Criticism is to help the gurus solve the problems existing in the party spirit and party style by putting forward facts and truth and carrying out active and healthy ideological struggles. Since a considerable number of places and departments have not carried out criticism and self-criticism for a long time to start up well, some comrades are accustomed to praising