古语有云“入土为安”。江苏省苏州市的钱玉花、顾金龙老夫妇在先后去世后,却因为父子矛盾以及随之而来的子女纠葛频生事端,使得刚去世的老父亲久久不能安葬,而安葬了近一年的老母亲的骨灰又被残忍地从墓地中掘走。为老夫妇俩的下葬、祭奠以至墓碑上的子女署名等问题,顾家旺、顾家惠和顾家勤、顾家红、顾家明兄弟姐妹5个纠纷不断,两年间连续打了两场官司。 Old saying goes cloud “Into the soil ”. After the death of Qian Yuhua and Gu Jinlong, the old couple in Suzhou City, Jiangsu Province, they buried the deceased father for a long time because of the conflicts between his father and son and the children’s entanglements. The old mother’s ashes were brutally removed from the cemetery. For the couple’s funeral, memorial service and the signature of the children on the tombstone, Gu Jiawang, Gu Jiahui, Gu Jiaqin, Gu Jiahong and Gu Jialing continued to have five disputes over their brothers and sisters. They fought two lawsuits consecutively in two years.