同是生活在康熙年间的两位才子,一位是生在贵胄之家,前途似锦,满腹才华的纳兰性德,但却一生惆怅满怀,满纸哀感顽艳之词。一个是六世达赖,身在佛门,却心在红尘的仓央嘉措,他的情诗浸透着爱的无奈。二人有着共同之处,都过着纠结矛盾的人生,最终英年早逝。从二人的人生经历,诗词两个大方面探析他们的悲剧人生。通过他们共同具有的身世与现实的矛盾,人格矛盾和从纳兰的词与仓央的情诗中显现的悲剧意识和矛盾情绪分析出二人的人生矛盾纠结的原因和相似性。 The same is the two wives living in Kangxi years, one is born in your house, bright future, full of talent Nalan nature, but life is full of melancholy, full of gratitude words. One is the Sixth Dalai Lama, who is in Buddhism, but is in the middle of the dust in his hand. His poem is soaked with the helplessness of love. The two have in common, all living a tangled life, and eventually die young. Analyzing their tragic life from two aspects of their life experience and poetry. Through their common life-reality contradictions, personality contradictions and the tragedy consciousness and ambivalence manifested in Nalan’s words and the love poems of Kuang-yang, this paper analyzes the reason and the similarity of the two contradictions in life.