温柔要有,但不是妥协,我们要在安静中,不慌不忙地坚强。——林徽因许多年前,我在论坛上看到过一位家长发的一个帖子,大致情况是:儿子上五年级,班上有个男生总是欺负他。每天放学回家,儿子的衣服上都是各种钢笔画的图案,清洗十分困难。和老师说了,老师只是批评批评就过去了。身为母亲,她每次看到儿子郁闷的表情,心里都很难 Gentle, but not compromise, we are to be quiet, calm and strong. - Lin Huiyin Many years ago, I saw at the forum a note from a parent. The general situation was: his son was in the fifth grade, and a boy in the class always bullied him. Every day after school, my son’s clothes are all kinds of pen and ink designs, cleaning is very difficult. And the teacher said, the teacher just criticized the criticism passed. As a mother, every time she saw his son depressed expression, my heart is very difficult