我曾不止一次听到年轻朋友抱怨家中的老人性情古怪,不易相处;听了以后,往往想起孔子说的几句话:子夏问孝,子曰:“色难。有事,弟子服其劳;有酒食,先生馔,曾是以为孝乎?”(《论语·为政》)这段话的意思是,子女尽孝,难在对父母和颜悦色。假如仅仅是有 I have heard more than once that young friends complain that the elders in the family are erotic and are not easy to get along with. After listening, they often think of a few words from Confucius saying: “If you are a child, There is a wine, Mr. food, used to be filial piety? ”(“ Analects of Confucius for the government ”) The passage of the meaning is that children filial piety, it is difficult to pleasantly colored parents. If only there is