苏霍姆林斯基指出:“课堂上一切困惑和失败的根子,绝大多数场合都在于教师忘却了:上课,这是教师和儿童的共同劳动,这种劳动的成功,首先是由师生关系来确定的。”事实上,师生关系这一问题如果不先解决,学生的主体地位、教学过程的优化、有效的教学、学生的全面发展等,都是一种奢谈。一、教育是一种特殊的交流活动, Suhommlinski pointed out: “In the classroom, all the roots of confusion and failure, the vast majority of occasions are that teachers have forgotten: the class, which is the joint work of teachers and children, the success of this labor, first by the division The relationship between students and students is determined.” In fact, if the problem of teacher-student relationship is not solved first, the subject status of students, the optimization of teaching process, effective teaching, and the overall development of students are all extravagance talks. First, education is a special kind of exchange activity.