我在日本的大学任教已超过五年,在我课上认识的男女学生最终结婚的已经有了若干对,这让我有点儿“月下老人”的感觉。接到婚礼请帖时,很难将名字和面孔对上号的情况下,我一般都婉言谢绝去参加婚礼。不过也有一回例外,大约是三年前的事情。大课结束后,一名大学四 I have been teaching at a Japanese university for over five years, and there are already a couple of male and female students who have been acquainted with me in class. It makes me feel a little bit “old man under the moon.” When receiving a wedding invitations, it is difficult to name the faces on the number, I usually politely declined to attend the wedding. But there is one exception, about three years ago. After the big class, a university four