一一九九零年,祖父去世,维系这个家族的最高长者离开了。那时,父亲已从部队转业,在故乡北部的一个城镇上班,三叔尚在部队,农村老家只有二叔留守。第二年,我们跟着母亲来到父亲工作的地方生活,从此离开了农村。曾经很庆幸,城镇的生活条件远远好于农村,只有十多岁的我第一次住进有暖气的房间,第一个冬天手脚没冻坏,第一次感受到了上中学也可以每天回家吃饭的幸福…… In 1990, his grandfather died and the eldest of the families who supported the family left. At that time, his father had been transferred from the army and went to work in a town in the northern part of his hometown. Third Uncle was still in the army. Only two Uncles in his hometown were left behind. The following year, following the mother’s visit to the place where my father worked, I left the countryside. Once fortunately, the living conditions in towns and cities are far better than that in rural areas. Only the teenagers, I lived in a heated room for the first time, did not freeze on the hands and feet in the first winter, and felt for the first time that returning to secondary schools Home happiness ...