一位美国作家说过:“当朋友取得成功时,我们心中就有一些东西被摧毁了。”当你听到别人成功的消息,会不会变得很脆弱?当你看到别人春风得意的时候,是不是感觉自己好像失去了什么?当你的快乐和满足被老同学或老朋友们的好消息冲淡时,你是不是觉得自己很失败?这时候的你,千万别烦,千万别恼,千万别跟自己过不去。这时,你最需要的是冷静。别人的奶酪总是很多很甜秦秋真正幸福过、快乐过、自豪过。正因为如此,她才深切地感受到,自己正在失去它们。导火线就是她最近总是听到一些关于别人的好消息:那天逛街时,她碰上 An American writer once said: “When a friend succeeds, something in our heart is destroyed.” Will you become vulnerable when you hear the news of others succeed? Do you feel like you’ve lost something? Did you feel yourself defeated when your happiness and contentment were diluted by the good news from old classmates or old friends? Do not worry, do not go with yourself. At this moment, what you need most is calm. Others are always a lot of cheese is very sweet Qin Qiu really happy, happy, proud. Because of this, she deeply felt that she was losing them. The fuse is that she has always heard some good news about others lately: when she was shopping, she ran into it